What is it you think that makes you attracted to Idea of clothed WAM as opposed to nudity? For me I think it's because I in a way in view WAM as "destruction" of sorts of traditional feminity. Women are (traditionally) supposed to be prim, proper, beautiful and you know all that Jazz and so when they ruin all of that just for the fun of it, I find it very "cool". This is also why I tend to favor formal clothing WAM above all as it is the "height" so to say of feminine nature so when women say "I don't care about how much time I put into looking this good, I'm gonna have fun" I find it just so thrilling and awesome
Just as a counter point to the destruction element, one of my absolute favourite activities is to go out, straight from work, in my work clothes and play in the mud. I then wash and dry everything and wear it back to work the next day. I'm always amazed how little damage mud actually does to (darker coloured) clothes and it's a massive thrill knowing how filthy they were when I'm innocently working the next day.
Lauren19 said: Just as a counter point to the destruction element, one of my absolute favourite activities is to go out, straight from work, in my work clothes and play in the mud. I then wash and dry everything and wear it back to work the next day. I'm always amazed how little damage mud actually does to (darker coloured) clothes and it's a massive thrill knowing how filthy they were when I'm innocently working the next day.
I was more thinking of an abstract destruction of traditional femenitity, But I didn't even consider this and yeah that does sound rather thrilling
For me it's a sexual attraction seeing a girl in soaking wet clothes but at the same time, I also find it a bit of a dare and a thrill. A dare because it goes against everything most people will tell you (including your mother) to not get your clothes wet or dirty and a thrill to do just that.
moeseph said: What is it you think that makes you attracted to Idea of clothed WAM as opposed to nudity? For me I think it's because I in a way in view WAM as "destruction" of sorts of traditional feminity. Women are (traditionally) supposed to be prim, proper, beautiful and you know all that Jazz and so when they ruin all of that just for the fun of it, I find it very "cool". This is also why I tend to favor formal clothing WAM above all as it is the "height" so to say of feminine nature so when women say "I don't care about how much time I put into looking this good, I'm gonna have fun" I find it just so thrilling and awesome
Ha! I like this. I'm not sure if the intended reading but this to me is kinda a feminist ideal. Like women saying no to tradition and expectations. In my life, that's really been something I've done. I've always been a brash female against the patriarchy and I do find solace and excitement in being non feminine; I.e. being smart, driven, loud, confident, and of course independent. I feel women show lots of power when we go against these norms and I definitely feel as both a feminist and a wammer I could say there is a certain theoretical lense this relationship could be seen through.
Lauren19 said: Just as a counter point to the destruction element, one of my absolute favourite activities is to go out, straight from work, in my work clothes and play in the mud. I then wash and dry everything and wear it back to work the next day. I'm always amazed how little damage mud actually does to (darker coloured) clothes and it's a massive thrill knowing how filthy they were when I'm innocently working the next day.
I've done this all my life. Especially in school when I had one uniform. Also clothes are extremely resistant to washing. Like I've thrown some dry clean only items in the heavy duty setting and they came clean with no issues.
moeseph said: What is it you think that makes you attracted to Idea of clothed WAM as opposed to nudity? For me I think it's because I in a way in view WAM as "destruction" of sorts of traditional feminity. Women are (traditionally) supposed to be prim, proper, beautiful and you know all that Jazz and so when they ruin all of that just for the fun of it, I find it very "cool". This is also why I tend to favor formal clothing WAM above all as it is the "height" so to say of feminine nature so when women say "I don't care about how much time I put into looking this good, I'm gonna have fun" I find it just so thrilling and awesome